I have decided to do this article, because I have a number of clients who find themselves in very toxic situations.
When we look at our inspirational image we can see that there are light and dark spots in the forest. By nature we tend to follow the light but we often end up in the dark… the same with our relationships.
Personally I grew up in an environment where people were quick to say “Forgive and forget”; let life continue as normal. I think this is a pretty healthy approach to life and all of us make mistakes. But what are we supposed to do if people continue to make these mistakes over and over again? Forgive and forget and get emotionally damaged in the process?
I have clients that are in abusive relationships who approach me for healings. This can either be emotional and or physical. Can I help them? Yes, if they help themselves and get out of these relationships. It’s ineffective to do healings on these clients if they don’t change their circumstances.
If people are in these toxic relationships, regardless of whether its spouses, friends or family, they need to dissect these relationships and see if it’s not a pattern that is being followed over and over again. Then it’s time to forgive, forget and move on!
If we return to the inspirational image, it’s our choice to walk in the light and leave the dark souls behind. These dark souls also need to be made aware that it is wrong to use and abuse people.