013. The Good Life With Daisy

As with life and the image in this note, not everything is always black and white. So often there are always different shades of colour in between. We often miss these in the rush to see one colour or the other.   

This was very much the case in a medium session that I had recently that I want to share with you. As I am sure that you will appreciate I always change the names for reasons of confidentiality. 

This week, Barbara came for a medium session and also brought Gerry her brother. They wanted to connect with their deceased father Tom who had died of a heart condition three years ago.

Tom’s last partner was Daisy who he was also engaged to. It was Daisy’s fourth marriage/engagement and the second for Tom. However, it is interesting to note that Daisy’s third partner and previous partners also died from a heart conditions similar to that of Tom.  She also had a husband that committed suicide as well. 

It is no accident that I decided on the name of Daisy; in South Africa we had a notorious poison murderer that murdered her three husbands and her son, she was known as Daisy De Melcker. More on that a bit later!

Once Tom had come through he revealed the following information to Barbara, Gerry and me about himself, his business deals and family:

Tom

• In the past he had had a fierce temper.
  
• Shared that he had dark hair and a goatee and loved to dress in his rugby shorts and flip flops
  
• Before he died at the age of 55, he was a busy and active person
  
• He confided that he was content with the location of his burial, he had been placed above his daughter who had sadly died when she was just a year old
  

Daisy

• Daisy decided that an alternative herbal method would be better for Tom despite Tom protesting to the contrary and seeking pharmacological advice.  As such despite Tom’s protests he did not get the correct medical dosages for his chronic illness. This was because Daisy moderated his daily intake so that this was taken with alternative solutions. 
  
• Daisy had claimed to Barbara that Tom left her 3 racehorses to the value of R1 000 000-00. In the session, Tom was able to confirm that he did not leave these horses and this was untrue.  
  
• Their relationship had been convenient for them both, particularly as Daisy needed the money. As such, it could have been more a ‘business’ relationship than a loving relationship.  
  
• During conversations, Daisy had a nasty habit of turning her back on people when you talked to her which really irritated Tom.
  

Business Deals

• Daisy removed money from Tom’s safe and Tom knew that this had happened despite the claims that Daisy said that the key had been lost. When a third party opened the safe there was nothing of value in there.
  
• Tom knew that his two business associates were dishonest and that the lawyer who is still handled his affairs could not to be trusted. 
  
• Four investments have disappeared and Tom also was aware that this had happened. 
  

Family

• Tom indicated that he was happy with his oldest son’s choice for a wife.
  
• Tom gave approval in the way that Barbara is handling the family affairs.
  
• Tom really loved his first wife but sadly he couldn’t handle her drinking issues and could not continue with the relationship. 
  

Conclusion

So how does all of this relate to our image at the start?

I guess that if you look at the depiction you can see that all the colours combine to give a rich and total view.  Through this session, Barbara got the complete picture about Daisy and the way Tom’s affairs had been handled by their lawyer. Perhaps the tide is now turning for the lawyer and Daisy?

Oh yes I said about Daisy earlier, well not say that it was confirmed by Tom but I guess that you can see the similarities of the notorious Daisy and our Daisy – it is up to you to make your mind up if you think that they are similar! 

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