I’ve had a lot of sessions with very unhappy clients that went to see mediums that were not happy with the outcome of the sessions. I have compiled the following to give you more information on sessions. If we look at our inspirational image... what more can I say... How:- Clients often ask me how do I do a Crossing Over / Medium Session? Questions like “How do I ‘call up’ a spirit” often surface. The answer is, clients come to me for the session, we sit down and I ask with whom they want to make contact. Once they give me the name and I see the soul, followed by a confirming description of the soul, I can then relay the info that the soul gives me. Crossed Wires:- I had cases in the past where the soul that clients wanted to connect with, didn’t come through first or initially, but where “second in line”. But when this happen it was always a soul that played a significant part in the client’s life. In these cases clients where very happy that this “unplanned connection” came through. Distinctive features:- When souls verify themselves with the client, they give distinctive features that are personal and in most cases only known to the client. They don’t leave any margin for error with this. It’s as important for the soul as it is for the client that both know the connection is genuine and with the correct soul. Emotional:- Some sessions can be very emotional because of unfinished business or things that needed to have been said when the soul is alive. In general everybody (including the soul) is very happy with the outcome of the session. There is defiantly closure for the client and the soul post a session. Receiving Info:- Souls will share info that is meaningful to the client and the client will understand the info. Should mediums start go give wrong info e.g. “Your mother had beautiful long nails”, and she never had long nails, think twice. According to me there are no grey areas with sessions. Either you have the right soul and the right info or the medium is lying through his or her teeth. Don’t be caught up with general info either “Your mother loved children”, yes that is why she had children. In all the years I’ve done medium session I never got info from a soul that left a client confused or where the client could not verify the info. Volunteering Info:- I always say work with the medium. Souls can show us things that we don’t always understand but should be meaningful to the client. The client, being enabled by the soul, might explain things so we all can understand it better. Never “feed” the medium info that they can turn around halfway in the session and use it. “You have mentioned your father was in prison, yes I can see your father was raped in prison”. Don’t:- Never go and see a medium if you didn’t know a person well enough. A good example of this was that a man wanted to connect with his biological father who died before they met. In cases like these a medium can tell you anything and you won’t know the better of it. Guarantees:- There are mediums are out there that “guarantee sessions” then they come up with nothing of value. Ask for references and follow up any person can claim to be a medium and give you general info that is meaningless. If we return to our inspirational image I would say you as a client would know what is true and what is false. If the medium are “fishing in grey areas”, stand up and walk out of the session. This medium as going to create confusion and sorrow, where you came for closure and ending of a chapter this is going to create unanswered questions.
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Hi Neels, I just want to say thank you for the healing that you did on me. I'm more at peace than I've ever been. I've even given up smoking . I would recommend you any day. I've also noticed small changes in my son and for that I thank you. It's a long slow process, but the aggression that was there so much is easier to manage now as I also don't get frustrated anymore. Thank you so very much, big hugs, Barbi I have met Neels a while ago to help me meet my guides and to learn spiritual healing. This was an amazing experience! Last week i had very bad lower back pain, and asked Neels to do a healing for me. He did the healing and in two days my lower back was pain free and normal again. Thank you very much Neels, you are an extraordanary person! Hope to see you soon! The events took place in the Chase vault, located in a West Indian cemetery. The vault, located about seven miles from Bridgetown, was a large structure built for the Chase family and their close friends. The vault was built roughly half above and half below the ground, which allowed for some degree of protection from the elements. The vault was slowly filled with the dead members of the Chase family. The first placed inside the vault was Mrs. Thomasina Goddard, in a simple wooden coffin built in July 1807. Two year old Mary Ann Chase was placed in the vault the very next year. The older sister of Mary Ann, Dorcas Chase, was put into the vault on July 6, 1812. Some claim that Dorcas starved herself after she was forced into depression by her father. None the less, a few weeks later her father, Thomas Chase, was placed into the vault. Legend says that Thomas was one of the most hated men in Barbados. When the Chase Vault was open for the burial of Thomas, the funeral party was stunned to find that none of the coffins were in their proper place. The group was angered, the theory being that grave robbers found a way into the grave and tossed the coffins about in search of loot. Soon, this theory was put to rest, as it was well known that nothing in the vault was of any value. The entrance was also a problem for robbers: a gigantic rock slab was cemented in place of the only entrance. Each time the vault was opened, the cement had to be chipped away and several men were needed to move the rock. Eventually, it was decided that the gravediggers had somehow disturbed the coffins. The coffins were replaced, and the lead coffin of Thomas Chase was put in place. The vault was then resealed, as it had been before. On September 25, 1816, the vault was opened for the burial of eleven year old Charles Brewster Ames. Like the previous case, each of the coffins were misplaced and thrown about (even the two hundred forty pound coffin of Thomas was thrown from place!). The vault was put back in order and resealed. Fifty two days later, Samuel Brewster was to be buried. This time, a large group of witnesses crowded the scene, looking for the mystery to continue. The slab of stone, which covered the door, was carefully examined. No defects were found, and the vault was opened. To no one’s surprised, the vault was once again in disorder. Mrs. Goddard's coffin, the only wooden one placed in the vault, was badly damaged. It was wrapped in wire to keep it together. A Closer Look at the Vault several investigators, including the Reverend Thomas Oderson, examined the vault. Nothing could be found that would indicate a cause for the strange happenings, so the vault was once again cleaned and sealed. On July 17, 1819 the vault was once again opened, and once again the vault was found to be in disorder. The only coffin untouched was the wooden, and fragile, one of Mrs. Goddard's. This time, the governor of the island, Lord Combermere ordered his own professional investigation. The entire vault was looked over, and nothing strange could be found. The coffins were restacked (Mrs. Goddard's wooden coffin was stacked against a wall, since it was so frail) and sand was placed on the floor to catch the footprints of the perpetrators. The vault was then reclosed, and personal seals of the governor were placed on concrete. Everyone of the island awaited the next reopening. The next opening of the vault was not for a burial, but for the governor’s curiosity. On April 18, 1820 the governor and several friends travelled to the vault and found his seal unbroken. When the vault was opened, however, it was found that the coffins were in disarray; some even flipped upside down! The sand revealed no footprints. The coffins were promptly removed from the vault and buried elsewhere on the island. Upon inspection, the vault was found to contain no water, and no way for water to enter it. Earth quakes were also eliminated; why would the quakes only effect that one section of island, and leave the wooden coffin alone? The question remains why did the moving of the coffins only happened post Dorcas funeral? As with many haunting’s there is often no understandable reason why some of this is happening. Some have speculated that the entire event never took place. Records show, however, that the Chase vault has and did exist. The vault is, and has been for some time, empty. (http://paranormal.about.com/gi/o.htm?zi=1/XJ&zTi=1&sdn=paranormal&cdn=newsissues&tm=1156&f=00&su=p504.6.342.ip_&tt=33&bt=0&bts=0&zu=http%3A//www.qsl.net/w5www/coffins.html) Hi my name is Ronelle. I was looking for a medium for 3 months,and happened to stumble upon Neels,I guess it wasn't co incidence. I was in contact with other mediums as well,trying to figure out which ones were genuine and which weren't. However I started chatting to Neels,who I was taken aback by,simply because of the honesty. And so I said,"yeah,let's try you,because there's nothing to lose". He was generous enough to book me and my partner in for two hours,thank God. After meeting with him,he got straight into it. I felt overwhelmed,because he got everything spot on,things that no one else knew!!! I started to cry,simply because I found what I was looking for,the re assurance from my mum. I promise you,if you want to get in touch with a loved one who has passed,give this man a try,you will definitely leave with a smile. To Neels I thank you from the bottom of my heart,because I honestly felt like my mum was speaking to me,even though it was through you. Thank you for the joy that you have given to me,in assuring me that my mum is well,because she really suffered. Knowing that she is smiling,I can now look forward to our next session. God Bless you Ronelle After a discussion about Old Souls with a fan Terry Hastings, she has graciously send a note with detailed information in regards to the discussion of old souls. I do think its worth the read as her knowledge on the subject is very extended. Terry Hastings · Neels Before I download the doc & read it, can I tell you what I know about myself and why I regard myself as an old soul? Compare it with what you got and tell me if I'm right. Old souls: - Even as a child very mature, take on responsibilities (as a child, I had to look after my brothers and sisters and took full responsibility from a very young age) - Being perceived by parents as a difficult child, because they cannot lie to you or fool you, you know what you know and nothing they say will convince you otherwise - Nt easy to manipulate, even from a young age onwards - Although identified as extremely bright/high IQ, not interested in school/studies and find it rather boring, just going through the motions for something that has to be done - Will only further studies in an area that is particularly interesting to you, and never to get a degree or diploma, but rather because you are fascinated by it. Once you have learned what you wanted to learn, you will give up the studies, even though you haven't completed the course - very creative, even as children - From a young age onwards, feel as if you don't quite fit in with the crowd (but not really bothered by it, you do your own thing) - a natural leader (because we simply refuse to follow haha and have no desire to fit into the mould) - have very few friends (tend to make one, sometimes two very close friends that will be your friends for life) - as and adult, we tend to go through the motions as expected by society, so as not to stand out and draw any attention. We blend in easily into any group, be it social or work - not particularly interested in the jobs we do, although we are natural leaders and naturally excell at what we do. - being bullied in the workplace, because the others perceive you as a threat, although you only want to help and be an advantage to the organisation - on the flipside of the coin, if you do end up in an organisation where your natural abilities are recognized, you are abused in terms of the amount of responsibility simply shifted your way and the hours you have to work. - natural perfectionists - we will not settle for poor workmanship - we are mostly very calm and collected - very few things can surprise or disturb us - we also have the ability to stay calm in crises/chaos and sort it out without much fuss - old souls don't trust easily - it takes us a very long time to trust somebody - if you break the trust of an old soul, you will not easily regain it (for me personally, if you hurt me or break my trust, I will walk away from that relationship and never go back, I will never ever trust you again or even talk to you again. If you pass me in the road, I will walk past you without even looking your way or acknowledging you at all) - we get hurt very easily, because our expectations of other people are always too high and they can never live up to it. One way or another, we will always get disappointed - people tend to take advantage of us, because we cannot say no - we always put other people first (which isn't always in our own best interest) - we have a unique way in dealing with death - we accept it for what it is - the passing on into another realm - not the loss of somebody, but them simply moving on - for us, money and fame and all that goes with that is not important. We concentrate on what really matters and are more interested in the deeper meaning of things and life - contrary to belief, we will actually make friends with a young soul (seeker), just to amuse ourselves. Unfortunately, we cannot spend too much time with them, because they tend to drain our energy and gets very irritating after a while - we are aware of our past lives (most of us will actually refer to past lives) - we are not interested in travelling to a place to see it for the first time, but rather because you are going back to some place of importance to you (for me, it is Machu Piccu and Pompei, I have been talking about it since I was about 6 years old, and back then very little was known about those places, but I could recall in detail much of what later turned out to be accurate descriptions of the area) - most of us are aware of other souls within our realm, souls that have not moved on (others refer to as ghosts) - I have the ability to look into someone's soul, without speaking a single word with them, and immediately make a soul connection or turn my back on them. If we connect, we will be friends for life, if I turn away, no matter what you do, you will never be my friend, because I've seen the darkness in your soul - We have very close connections to those important to us, and knows something is wrong even before we receive the call There are much more that I can add to this, but basically that is me. So tell me what you think and then I will download your notes and go through it. I believe that most of what I have said will be in your notes? T Terry Hastings · Neels I had to smile reading through your note, it was as if I had written it myself . Very interesting indeed. A fact that can be added to it is that old souls very seldom become friends with young or infant souls, we will rather be friends with mature souls. If one does become involved with an infant or young soul, it is to help them move on and learn the lessons they are suppose to. I made it a mission for myself to take on one infant and one young soul and be their mentor. That is also the other fact, many other souls see old souls as their mentor and people always turn to us for advise. An old soul that has a child with an old soul as well, recognise that early on in the child and will protect and shield that child from possible harm (although this isn't necessary as the child can do it themselves) Often we are told that a perfect job for us would be psychologist - I tend to disagree with that. A psychologist mostly has a touch of madness themselves - and are very confused about life in general. They treat patients and through doing that work through their own issues. Old souls don't have that problem - we've been there, done that. Anyway, I'm getting ahead of myself, will make a neat and more complete list Monday and send to you. Take care T Terry Hastings · Neels I have to say I find this extremely interesting. In the past hour I quickly jotted down some thoughts, because I know once I go and sit down to record it all, I would have forgotten half of it. Here is a few more: All old souls love music, but we have very specific taste in music, we generally will include all genres, as long as the music speaks to us Old souls have a natural ability to pick up languages easily, we do not battle to learn a new language and mostly understand what people say, no matter which language they speak Most old souls are what is generally referred to as a jack of all trades and master of none - we can do anything and do it reasonably well, sometimes very well. I gather this is because it used to be a particular trade in a previous life that we just choose not to do in this life, but we can still do it. As for myself, I worked a lot of different trades since I left school. I started off as secretary/personal assistant then became a pre-school teacher, then worked in the hospitality trade as chef/caterer as well as FOH manager. I then moved to the retail trade and worked as receiving manager and currently I am the manager of a forecourt and Select shop. I still do catering part time and remedial teaching for less fortunate children. Most people are drawn to old souls. We are also particularly good with children and old people. Acceptance is very much part of the old soul - we are not critical of other religions or viewpoints Old souls are very seldom politically inclined - we are born politically indifferent because we know that in the end all politics are the same and all politicians inevitably become corrupt Most old souls have an inner knowledge on how to heal with herbs, spices, vitamins and minerals. We just know what is good for us and what we lack - that doesn't mean that we always take care of ourselves Maths and languages come easy to old souls - been there done that is the motto In business old souls are innovative and can quickly come up with new ideas and solutions to problems - but we will never take the glory for it, we prefer to blend in, not stand out Old souls are often described as butterfly personalities because we move from one thing to the next or one job to the next as if we have no purpose - this is mostly to either get out of a situation that has become unbearable at your current job or simply because we have become bored with it. I know that I stay max 6 months in one job, it is only the last 6 years that I have stayed with one employer, and it simply is because there has been a lot of major changes within the organisation every year with a lot of challenges every time. Old souls embrace change, we are not scared of it because we already know that nothing under the sun is new Most old souls are close to nature Most old souls I know has had a near death experiences, although it doesn't happen to all of us Old souls will carry scars from a previous life - either be born with it or get it in a different manner in this life. I was born with a mark on my leg, a very distinctive mark. I also have a scar from my right hip all the way across my body to where it ends at my right rib cage. I have a scar across my face as well as a scar across my hand. I believe all of these are scars that I had in past lives and thus I'm having it again. Old souls will recognise enemies from past lives and will either steer clear of them or will be bitter enemies in this life. Old souls can recognise evil in others and will steer clear of them Some old souls are light carriers and will actively seek out other light carriers. We have a duty to spread the light and will keep doing that as best as we can. You are a light carrier as well - you heal souls and by that you spread the light. Sometimes the light is so bright in some of us, that other souls see it as well. I believe that is the case with you - your light is so bright others see it and naturally drift towards you. With that in mind you also have to be careful not to exhaust yourself to much, because I believe sometimes you take on so much, that you battle to keep up with it and spread yourself to thin. And with that I just realised what the urgent message was that I absolutely had to give you - Do not spread yourself to thin and take on so much that you cannot keep up with it, you are exhausting your soul and is in danger of extinguishing the light. You still have much to do and many people to help. The work you do is important and the need is great. I know I sound like a crazy old witch, but thats how it sometimes work with me, I need to talk to you a bit before I realise exactly what it is I have to tell you. Take care my friend and have a peaceful weekend xxxxxxxxxx It’s been a while since we had a fun note on the page and have decided to do three ghost stories. I do find the ghost stories fascinating and have been to various “Ghost Locations”, sadly when I’m invited to the locations its always to neutralise the ghost activity. When I get to the locations the ghosts, it seems to me, are always away on a quick vacation. I’ve decided to do the story on Lord Combermere and by coincidence when I showed Graeme the note. He informed me that there where arrests made for child pornography at the location on the specific day. This photograph of the Combermere Abbey library was taken in 1891 by Sybell Corbet. The figure of a man can faintly be seen sitting in the chair to the left. His head, collar and right arm on the armrest are clearly discernable. It is believed to be the ghost of Lord Combermere. Lord Combermere was a British cavalry commander in the early 1800s, who distinguished himself in several military campaigns. Combermere Abbey, located in Cheshire, England, was founded by Benedictine monks in 1133. In 1540, King Henry VII kicked out the Benedictines, and the Abbey later became the Seat of Sir George Cotton KT, Vice Chamberlain to the household of Prince Edward, son of Henry VIII. In 1814, Sir Stapleton Cotton, a descendent of Sir George, took the title "Lord Combermere" and in 1817 became the Governor of Barbados. Today the Abbey is a tourist attraction and hotel. Lord Combermere died in 1891, having been struck and killed by a horse-drawn carriage. At the time Sybell Corbet took the above photo, Combermere's funeral was taking place some four miles away. The photographic exposure, Corbet recorded, took about an hour. It is thought by some that during that time a servant might have come into the room and sat briefly in the chair, creating the transparent image. This idea was refuted by members of the household, however, testifying that all were attending Lord Combermere's funeral. Lord Combermere was also involved in another documented paranormal incident, we will keep this for a next note. (http://paranormal.about.com/od/ghostphotos/ig/Best-Ghost-Photos/Lord-Combermere.-04z.htm) I am aware that it has been a while since one of my last notes. Nevertheless, you know that sometimes taking time out to reflect can be just as important if not more as taking a course of action. Through this deep reflection, I decided to do this note because I have found that a number of old soul friends have had similar difficulties in their lives. Looking at their circumstances, I feel that individually their patience has been tested. We always feel that we are up against time....always in a hurry to get somewhere, do something or be with someone....yet the idea of time is a ‘man made construct’. As in the pocket watch and key we are all looking to find that something that will help us understand ourselves better and bring us to a different inner place. I guess that for old souls patience has to be that explanation. Parenting Parents who have children that are old souls will tell you that it’s very easy to bring them up because these children already have a deep understanding of what is right and wrong such as it being wrong to steal and lie. Invariably, these children are very self reliant and do not need the constant stimulation that we can see in other sorts of young soul children. Relationships It is all relative.....I know that from some people’s perception that old souls could been seen to be loners; they do their own thing and aren’t bothered by the social norms of society. They also have very little interest in casual relationships with other people in their surroundings. For them, curiosity and gossiping are almost not existent; they simply don’t have the energy to waste time on this. I know that I said that they can be loners but this doesn’t mean that old souls can’t have deep and meaning full relationships, but it’s just more likely that they’ll be with each other not only in one lifetime but through several. I think that old souls find young souls selfish, irresponsible and unattractive. Old souls just don't have the energy to bother with other souls. They just want to do their own thing and not being bothered, but unfortunately in life they are not that lucky. Career With many of the people that I have researched they have often been graduates or post graduates who have finished their studies and started a career. Initially, their careers seemed to go well until they unknowingly started to threat the younger souls in their work environment. If there is one thing about old souls is that they have a mature and calm way to handle a crisis compared to the actions of younger souls as for them their past previous life experiences stand them in good stead. Some of the ways that young souls will feel threatened is that often older souls will be more efficient, better at problem solving and have good leadership skills. This jealously means that for them rather than have team efficiency it is better for them as individuals to force them out of that work environment and blame old souls for their failures. Personal lives In a number of cases, many old souls have had to put their own stable careers on hold to be there and help young souls who are keen to follow their own usually unstable career. I have seen this time and time again where the net result has been that the young soul can often only pay for the basics and never has enough money left over for the emergencies of life. Caregivers Quite a number of old souls also end up as caregivers to their parents, spouses or if appropriate their disabled children. The compassion that they have can be marked by the additional financial responsibilities that this places on them in their day to day life and sadly in the end they have to acknowledge that they cannot fix the world, that sometimes it is better that they are looked after by professionals, for example in a care home. Health As with everyone as we are all getting older and develop health issues, however with older souls I would say that stress and external factors play a significant part in their health problems contributing to the deterioration of their health. Where I live I know that often due to financial factors accessing efficient private health provision is not always an option which means that older souls are often forced back to rely on governmental health based systems which sadly are not always as effective as they should be. In turn this means that for them it can take them months to recover, jobs have been lost and forcing them to look at again for new employment. Confusion “Let’s re-invent the wheel” this could be the slogan of younger soul groups! They are so often keen to change the existing systems but forget the merits of some parts that they are throwing out which in turn leaves older souls confused and in inner conflict. Why are they in such a hurry? I guess that there is about the newness of change and the drive and power that goes with this. Change for change sakes which mean that by creating chaos, big confusion and fights is like a hurricane. People especially old souls get caught up in this yet when the storm has passed where are the young souls? They have walked away from the eye of the storm, the chaos that they have brought. Not to take the responsibility of their actions and consequences but to blame the older souls around them. All the ‘storm’ detritus has been dumped on the old soul. "Nonsense Filter" Usually I like to give some of the fans a preview of my notes and ask if they’ve any suggestions to add to the note. I had to smile with Bob’s suggestion of the "bullshit filter". As you would expect, it’s very difficult to try and lie to an old soul or to manipulate them. They have the innate ability to see the big picture and analyse the situation. One good example of this is the “Do as I say” rule that parents often use with children. The child may question why they have to follow this rule only to be greet with “Just do it”. Yet the next day the child is completely perplexed as the parent does exactly the same action that that he or she told the child not to do. In doing so, the child does not feel that they have the same level of trust and in the longer term all respect will be lost towards their parents due to these double standards. You might have seen me in this note writing questions? I guess that therefore, it is no surprise to you as the reader that old souls love to ask the question why? It’s not about just accepting what the status quo is but wanting to have a full and complete understanding. So here we come back again to what I was saying at the start. Deep inner reflection is one of the keys for old souls. To reflect, analyse and have a gut feel about a situation so that they can give a fair and evaluated feedback. Stability More recently, I had a consultation with an old soul and this really did highlight to me that their needs were basic:
Finally, reflecting on the inspirational image, I have to wonder what keys we use unlock our own can of worms as old souls. Time and time again, it is about the ability for old souls to take that deep breath again and have patience. I do appreciate that sometimes it can feel a frustrating thing but at the end of the day these are the life lessons that old souls have to work through. So with every minute and hour that man has constructed it doesn’t mean that old souls are not entitled to enjoy their lives. They just need to make the most of what they have, reflect and take time out for themselves too. I've decided to this note because sadly I have witnessed a lot of deaths of pedestrians which are often all too common in South Africa. Once a pedestrian has died, the soul is in shock and confused, so they reach out to nearby mediums as a source of comfort until they realise what has happened for them, till they are comforted by their guides and loved ones on the other side. I guess that I wanted to use this inspirational image as it reminded me of days through the woods that I have taken. The bench being a restful spot for those who have become weary on their journey and need to rest as in all of our daily lives. Mediums As a young medium, I couldn’t understand why souls unknown to me would want to reach out to me for assistance in a time like this. I asked my teacher about this and she explained that mediums have a sort of "light" that shines above their heads that attracts these types of souls. Sadly, there isn’t much that I can do for these souls especially when I am driving and travelling. Nevertheless, if I’m not busy then I can let them know where to look for their departed loved ones who are waiting for them and try to comfort them. Although, if they do realise that I can’t help them then they often leave me alone. "Untimely Deaths" What are “untimely deaths”? For me, I consider that these are accidents, cot deaths, short illnesses, drug overdoses and suicides with psychiatric patients. I am sure that you’d agree with me that so often it is the impact that hits hard on their loved ones who have to stay behind and deal with these feelings of grief and loss because of the unexpected nature that this has happened. And this reminds me of a time that I attended a funeral service of a friend that had committed suicide. You might be surprised to hear that he was all over the shop. One moment he was in the gallery, then at the organ and in between all the congregation. Was he sad? No he was as happy as he could be. I think that it was fortunate for the other people that I was the only once that could see his fun and games or he might have brought the ‘house’ or should that be church down with his own funeral. Master Plan Many of you will have heard me speak about the Master Plan before but it is always good to revisit this. In conjunction with our guides and other spirits, we’ve planned ahead in detail our own lives and earth paths which include the following:
So where does that leave us? I think that our lives are very much the same as the inspirational image and the different choices and pathways that we take and follow. The things that we need to learn even if we don’t want to learn. How many times have you taken a pathway and that you seem to end up back at the point you could have been had you taken a different choice? It is that master plan in action....do you choose the wooded scenic route? Take a rest or just get going and get there? One thing that I do know is that one the choice has been made and the life lesson learned then it is the end of that pathway and time to move on to the next one. Enjoy your journey but as a pedestrian cross safely please! |
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